Words of affirmation. Complimenting. “I didn’t think you needed help with the USB cable because you’re so smart.”

Quality time. You want your husband to watch everything you want to watch with you, and you expect him to know which things you would never watch and those are the things he can watch by himself.

Receiving gifts. This can sound materialistic and less noble a language. But it’s just another way of feeling loved or known.

Acts of service. That means you want your husband to show his love by, for example, taking out the trash and disposing of the dead Christmas tree and building the bench and wiping the exoskeletons of ladybugs from the top of the light fixture.

Touch. I have found this one is a favorite among men.